This means you have to lose the ego, and presumption. Porn In the pickup world this is talking about IOI’s, indicators of interest. No girl has ever been impressed by hearing a man tell her she looks hot. No girl has ever been impressed by hearing a man tell her she looks hot. You need to be confident enough to make her choose. You should only ever want to hear this when you deserve their respect. Being put into a state where she is experiencing every moment fully, without her mind being splintered in many different directions. Instead just say what’s on your mind “ohh my god I can’t believe you’re here in my bed.
